Inspiration

Your Next Mini Should Be a Little Unhinged

Becky Tahel

Becky Tahel

10 min read
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The case for getting weird, trying something new, and using mini sessions as your creative playground.

Holiday minis. Mother’s Day minis. Wildflower minis. Matching-pajama minis.

We love them. Your clients love them. Your calendar definitely loves them.

But every once in a while?

You should shoot something that makes absolutely no sense.

Or at least, something that makes you think:

Would anyone actually book this?

Good.

That might be exactly why you should try it.

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Minis don’t always have to be the safe bet.

One of the best things about a mini session is right there in the name: It’s mini.

Smaller commitment. Controlled location. Repeatable setup. Short shooting window.

Which also makes it a pretty perfect place to experiment.

Instead of treating every mini like a tiny version of your regular sessions, think of some of them as creative R&D.

A chance to test:

  • a strange concept
  • a different lighting setup
  • a new editing style
  • harder flash
  • more movement
  • unusual crops
  • a different type of direction
  • something editorial
  • something stupid
  • something you would never normally pitch to a client

Worst-case scenario? You made something weird.

Best-case scenario? You stumble into something that becomes part of your photographic voice.

And in an industry where a lot of beautiful work can start to look remarkably similar in a scroll, having a point of view matters.

Enter: The Ugly Cry Mini.

We polled our audience on social, and one of the faves that emerged was this concept.

Our premise was:

Get really hot. Then completely lose it.

Full glam. Great wardrobe. Beautiful lighting. And then absolutely devastating tears.

Mascara running. Tears everywhere. Ripping hair out. Clutching an artifact from the relationship. Staring into the middle distance while the saddest song imaginable plays somewhere nearby.

Basically:

What if your worst breakup had incredible art direction?

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And that contrast is part of what makes an idea like this work.

The photos stand out because everything else is taken seriously.

The lighting is intentional.

The styling is intentional.

The talent commits.

The photography is intentional.

But the moment itself is one we don’t usually make much room for.

The breakdown. The ugly middle. The second after someone loses composure. The expression you’d normally skip over while looking for the “good” frame.

There’s something compelling about leaning into those otherwise discarded moments instead of shooting around them.

They’re vulnerable. They’re off-beat. They’re imperfect in a way that feels deeply human.

And sometimes, that’s what makes an image impossible to scroll past.

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There was another part of this experiment we didn’t necessarily expect, either:

“It felt really good.”

Every one of our talent commented on how cathartic the shoot was.

There’s something strangely freeing about being given permission to completely lose it for a camera…to cry harder, make the face, ruin the makeup, stop trying to look composed.

And honestly?

It was cathartic for the photographer (@acresofwild, Nathan Ben David) too.

When you shoot professionally, it’s easy to settle into the rhythms you know work. The lighting you trust. The prompts you know will land. The frames you know clients will choose.

That consistency is valuable.

But so is interrupting it.

Trying something you haven’t shot before. Asking your subjects to be a little more vulnerable. Letting yourself make photographs without already knowing exactly where they’re going.

There’s real creative energy in that.

Sometimes shaking things up doesn’t just give you new portfolio work.

It reminds you why you like making pictures in the first place.

The trick isn't “be weird.” It's having a clear idea.

There’s an important distinction here.

Random isn't automatically interesting.

Adding seventeen props, renting a llama and putting everyone in wigs isn't a concept.

Before producing an outside-the-box mini, try explaining the entire idea in one sentence.

Ugly Cry Mini: Come looking incredible. Leave emotionally destroyed.

You immediately understand the image.

That’s what you're looking for.

The strongest concepts usually have:

A recognizable human truth. Breakups. Bad school photos. Kids being feral. Awkward family portraits. First dates. Sleep deprivation. Your dog being treated like your biological child.

One unexpected turn. Take the familiar thing and push it somewhere it normally doesn't go.

A visual payoff. If the concept is funny on paper but doesn't actually give you interesting photographs to make, keep working.

And ideally:

Room for people to bring themselves into it.

That last one is where things get really good.

Give your subjects something to play with.

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For Ugly Cry, don't just tell someone:

“Okay, now look sad.”

That's approximately four seconds of material.

Instead, build a little world around them before they arrive.

Ask every subject to come prepared with:

A backstory. It can be true. It can be fictional. It can be completely ridiculous. But who broke your heart? What happened? Why are we crying?

A personal object. An old sweatshirt. A photograph. A stuffed animal. A letter. A toothbrush you absolutely should have thrown away six months ago.

Anything that gives their hands (and their imagination) something to work with.

A devastating song. Have everyone send over one or two songs capable of putting them emotionally underground.

Make a playlist. Use it.

Suddenly you're not directing a pose.

You're directing a scene.

Build the world before you shoot it.

An unconventional mini still needs structure.

Actually, it probably needs more structure, because you're asking people to do something they haven't done 47 times before.

1. Find the right location.

Don't just ask what looks pretty.

Ask: Where would this story happen?

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For Ugly Cry, we wanted a black void where the talent could really get lost in their feelings. These were meant to feel like portraits, not a set-heavy concept, so the emotion could do all the work.

We shot it in a warehouse with a collapsible backdrop held up by a single C-stand or light stand, plus a simple one-light setup with a little bounce from a reflector.

That’s it.

Reminder: you don't necessarily need a massive set.

You just need to understand the world, and provide your talent with some given circumstances.

2. Style the contrast.

The “ugly” in Ugly Cry works better when everything starts beautiful.

Get glam. Do the hair. Put on the dress. Perfect the makeup. Then destroy it.

Your concept should have somewhere to go.

Think in before → during → after.

Perfect mascara. One tear. Absolute collapse.

Congratulations: you already have a shot progression.

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3. Bring the practical stuff.

Tissues. Makeup for touch-ups. Water. A mirror. Music. Personal props.

And, if your subject wants some help getting the waterworks going, a professional tear product can help. Just follow the manufacturer's directions carefully and keep anything intended for the skin out of the actual eye.

Most importantly: Talk through the bit before you start.

The more ridiculous the concept, the safer people need to feel looking ridiculous inside it.

Tell them what you're trying. Show references if you have them. Give them permission to go way too far. You can always bring someone down from an 11.

Trying to coax a self-conscious 3 into an 11 is much harder.

Direct actions, not poses.

This is useful far beyond Ugly Cry Minis.

Instead of: “Look devastated.”

Try prompts that give them an emotional direction they can actually play with:

“You’re trying really hard not to cry.”

“They did something horrible. How dare they? Let yourself get mad about it.”

“You’re holding it together because you do not want them to see you cry.”

“You just found out. You’re still processing it.”

“You want to say something, but you can’t quite get the words out.”

“Take a breath like you’re trying to pull yourself back together.”

“Okay, stop fighting it. Just let it happen.”

“You’re pissed. Actually pissed.”

“Now give me the moment after the crying, when you’re completely drained.”

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One of the most useful tricks here is resistance.

“Try not to cry” will often give you more than “cry.”

“Don’t let them see you’re upset” can be more interesting than “look upset.”

“Hold it together” creates all those tiny expressions between composure and collapse.

And once someone stops thinking about how they look and starts responding to an actual feeling or circumstance, you can often get something far more compelling than whatever “sad pose” either of you would have invented.

Those in-between moments are usually where the good stuff is.

Give the idea a second life.

One of the best parts of shooting something outside your usual lane is that the work tends to keep giving.

A strong concept doesn’t just result in a gallery. It gives you something to talk about. Something to show behind the scenes. Something to explain. Something your audience can react to.

Something that makes people curious about how you made it.

One unusual session can become:

  • the finished portraits
  • behind-the-scenes
  • a Reel
  • a photographer POV
  • talent reactions
  • a “how we made this” post
  • a breakdown of the concept or lighting
  • a post about what you learned creatively
  • a conversation starter for future clients

And because the idea itself is distinct, the content around it tends to feel distinct too.

Not because every shoot needs to be squeezed for content. But because when the concept has a point of view, it naturally creates more to say.

That gives the work a second life beyond the session itself.

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And yes, sometimes the weird idea can become the bookable idea.

There is absolutely a place for straightforward, broadly appealing minis.

You do not need to replace Christmas trees with existential crises. (Or do you?!)

But experimental shoots can tell you something useful.

Maybe people obsess over one frame.

Maybe your audience starts asking when they can do it.

Maybe the strange lighting setup becomes something you incorporate into senior sessions.

Maybe you discover you're extremely good at directing people through narrative.

Maybe the concept itself becomes a recurring mini.

Or maybe none of that happens and you simply make ten photographs you're wildly excited about.

That counts too.

Not every creative decision needs to begin with:

Will this sell?

Sometimes making the thing you're excited to make is how you figure out what else you have to offer.

Want to make your own unhinged mini?

Start here.

THE UNHINGED MINI FORMULA

1. Pick something familiar. Family portraits. School photos. Dating. Motherhood. Breakups. Headshots. Pets. Birthdays.

2. Break one rule. What's the version photographers normally don't shoot?

3. Write the one-sentence premise. If it takes a paragraph to explain, simplify it.

4. Find the visual tension. Pretty + disastrous. Formal + feral. Serious + absurd. Mundane + cinematic.

5. Choose one location that does some storytelling for you.

6. Give your subjects homework. Wardrobe. Backstory. Objects. Music. References. Something personal to bring into the frame. TIP: Bring a ton of backup props!

7. Plan the progression. Where does the session begin? Where does it end?

8. Shoot the details and the in-between. The story isn't only happening when everyone looks at the camera.

9. Leave space for the thing you didn't plan.

That last one is important.

Because the point of doing something outside your usual box isn't to build yourself a newer, stranger box.

It's to see what happens when you don't already know exactly what the photograph is supposed to look like.

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Your next mini can be polished. It can be profitable. It can be tasteful. It can be the thing you've done every October for six years because people genuinely love it.

And every once in a while, it can also be completely unhinged.

Book the weird location.

Make the playlist.

Tell everyone to bring emotional baggage.

Get the shot you can't stop thinking about.

You can always shoot normal again tomorrow.



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Authored by
Becky Tahel

Becky Tahel is a writer, producer, and performer who’s teamed up with top creators like Jake Paul, Eric Andre, Jay Shetty, and Gabby Bernstein. She’s produced content for global brands and influencers, racking up over 50 million views across social. As the director/producer/host of the award-winning documentary "American Birthright" and co-founder of Mannafest Media, she helps people and brands find their voice and make a lasting impact through strategy, story, and creative content. A global speaker on content creation and self-actualization, she has two little kids, and is grossly underslept.